Find Out What Fulfills You, What Makes You Becom You

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 Does having a lot of wealth help to fill that emptiness, or do

you still feel unfulfilled despite the material stuff you have ?

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What's your purpose and what gratifies you and  makes you

feel you have self-actualized..?

 

  Is there more to life than what you are experiencing at the

moment?

 

 Does the car you drive; the house you own or the materials

you have define you?

 If you were to lose them will you still be you or will you cease

from being you? Does the relationship you have define

who you are?

 

 Many a times people define themselves by  what they

 posses and the  type of friends they  have, then without all

those, they feel incomplete, like they are not  whole,

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 Do you gauge your self-worth, self- concept and your

perception of who you are by your possessions?

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  Is  your self-esteem only based on the nice things people

say about you and what they think of you?

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 Is your self-esteem  defined by others and all the stuff

you have? 

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 Do you have high Self-esteem or others esteem ?

 

"others esteem" is that confidence based on people's

assessment of you,which is mostly based on what people

think of you, therefore, if they don't praise you, do you

then perceive yourself as someone of less value and

insignificant?

 

But the truth is that, if you know who you are, your potential

and you have the confidence in yourself, no amount of

negative evaluation of you could influence who you believe you

are.

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 If its constructive assessment and helps you to grow, to

improve in various areas and in your interpersonal relationship, cherish it, appreciate it.

Nobody is perfect. we are all flawed with strengths and

limitations and sometimes accepting feedback maybe difficult.

 

Reflexive approach to self is often beneficial for our growth.

Competing with no one but yourself to become a better

version of yourself is a good thing because it makes you to

challenge yourself.

 If you choose to do that, let it be a healthy competition where

you don't become too critical of yourself to a point of damaging

your inner-being which might be detrimental to your mental

well-being.

 If without your possessions you don't know who you are or without your friends you cant be yourself then  who are you?

Are you others directed?;

Is your self worth based on others and on material possessions?.

                                                   

  Without all the possessions, the glamour and the glitter, then who would you say you are?

Who are you?

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