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Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,Ph.D.

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Post Infidelity Stress Disorder(PISD)
Post Infidelity Pains
Rethabile Mmonadibe
5 days ago1 min read


DBT
Clinicians, Counsellors, Psychotherapists, Clinical Social workers; It doesnt get any better than this and it's FREE! What an awesome way to start 2026 DBT is one of today’s most in-demand treatments and this is your chance to get its core tools and techniques…absolutely FREE! Whether you’re treating clients who have been diagnosed with trauma, anxiety, depression or any number of the conditions you see in your office each day, DBT has bee
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
5 days ago1 min read


FESTIVE SEASON AND GBV
“Drug Demand Reduction” - let’s reduce harm.
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
6 days ago1 min read


When Insight Is Not Enough For Kids: What Finally Moved The Needle In Session
#regulation #teachable #brain-based #whole-brain #child nervoussystem #reimagined #siegel&bryson #regulation #training There is a moment every clinician and educator knows: A child can name emotions and explain triggers. They can tell you what they should do next time. Then the next time comes and the nervous system takes over. Talk alone cannot bridge the gap. That is the gap The Whole-Brain Child has helped us close for more than a decade. It gave us language for
newbeginningsnbcc1
Dec 51 min read


Let's celebrate Autism Acceptance Month Together
Autism Acceptance #WorldAutismAwarenessDay #AutismAwareness #LightItUpBlue #CelebrateDifferences #AutismAcceptance Whether you're just starting your career or are an experienced pro, we'd love for you to join our community of clinicians dedicated to empowering clients, improving ASD diagnosis and treatment, and raising awareness. 🤝 Check out this curated selection of books 📖, live webinars 📺, and self-study trainings 💻 that focus on the latest research, comorbid intervent
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Dec 51 min read


Internal Family Systems
https://my.pesi.partners/554NQCR/2MMQ9JB/ ID 941 Name FREE LIVE EVENT! | Nov 2025 | Clinical Applications of Internal Family Systems Therapy: Step-by-Step Procedures for Healing Traumatic Wounds and Alleviating Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Addiction and More.
newbeginningsnbcc1
Nov 271 min read


When Talk Therapy Isn't Enough: What Helped Me Reach My Stuck Clients
There's a moment I think every therapist knows: You're working with a client who's self-aware. They understand their trauma. They've mapped it out, made connections, even named the patterns. But somehow, they're still stuck. Still flooded. Still not moving forward. That's when it became clear to me— insight isn't always enough. Sometimes, talk therapy can only take us so far. Because trauma doesn't just live in the mind. It lives in the body. That's why I'm sharing this
newbeginningsnbcc1
Nov 271 min read


What Finally Helped Me Work Confidently with Angry Clients
Angry clients can be some of the most challenging to work with—especially when they're disengaged, resistant, or flat-out aggressive in session. I used to wonder where to even begin. Standard tools fell short, and progress was inconsistent. Then I found Dr. Pavel Somov's approach—mindfulness-based, clear, and deeply practical. FREE 2-Day Live Training: Anger Management Certification Intensive August 25–26, 2025 | 8:00 AM–4:00 PM Central Led by Dr. Pavel Somov, psychologist an
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Nov 271 min read


IFS: The Therapy Approach That Changed How I Work — and How I Heal
IFS: The Therapy Approach That Changed How I Work — and How I Heal There was a time in my clinical work when I felt stuck. I had the training. The tools. The supervision. I was doing everything "right" — and yet, some clients weren't moving forward. Not really. Not in the way I knew they needed to. We'd circle the same issues. Defenses would rise. Sessions would plateau. And somewhere deep down, I started wondering: Is this just how therapy goes sometimes? Then I found Intern
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Nov 272 min read


Are You Over-caring?
From Deadly Emotions by Don Colbert (MD)
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Nov 275 min read


💍MARRIAGE IS A JOURNEY, NOT A DESTINATION 💍
“Marriages are built, not found”
Rethabile Mmonadibe
Nov 251 min read


Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Nov 140 min read


The Power of Letting Go
The Benefits of Letting Go
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Nov 911 min read


When a Man Loves
What a Man Does When He Loves
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Nov 63 min read


In a Relationship with an Ambivalent or Disorganised Person?
Let’s talk about ambivalent attachment, how it gets formed, how it's established, what the characteristics are, and how people with ambivalent attachment style function; their characteristics and behaviours in adulthood. But first, let’s look at their childhood, what could have contributed to them being the way they present themselves or function, the way they respond to situations and to relationships in their adulthood. Ambivalent attachment is also known as anxious, preoc
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Oct 276 min read


Family Scapegoat Syndrome
Edited by Tshidi M Wyllie(PhD).
Rethabile Mmonadibe
Oct 242 min read


Finding Yourself Again
Finding Yourself Again🌱 By Rittah Mmonadibe Edited by Tshidi M Wyllie (PhD). Life has a way of pulling us in so many directions to a...
Rethabile Mmonadibe
Oct 71 min read


Forgiveness is a Choice
Forgiveness is a Choice #forgiveness. #holding grudges #offense #unforgiveness #letting go #putting incident behind #emotional regulation # bitterness, resentment, anger etc Reasons for Failing to Forgive Some people find it difficult to forgive for various reasons. Before I explain what forgiveness is andwhy some people finds it difficult ro forgive, allow me to start by explaining what forgiveness is not. Forgiveness is
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Oct 67 min read


How to Help Your Children Cope With Divorce - PART 2
“They Hurt Too!” Previously, I wrote about the profound emotional impact of divorce on children that leaves them scared,...
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Sep 15 min read


The Impact of Divorce on Children
Watch on YouTube video shorts: https://youtube.com/shorts/E_-X7KgAcqY Often when people talk about divorce, they focus on the two...
Dr Tshidi M Wyllie,PhD.
Aug 263 min read
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